10:49amLucy
hey

10:50amAnna
hey hey
watcha doing?

10:51amLucy
anna, how can u forgive someone who has taken a huge part of
you and has said sorry about it over and over again?

10:59amAnna
Well, I always figure that if they apolgize and mean it, then
I always forgive them.

11:00amLucy
yeah...
what if it was ur virginity? and ur innocence?

ANNA: Well, then I suppose you should get some more explanation from them.
Why? And did they mean to hurt you?

11:02amLucy
no, i guess they didn't see what was going on and what he was doing but
in the end it was his immaturity that made it worse...

11:03amAnna
Well, I guess if he's truly apologetic, then he deserves at least
a chance of retribution

11:04amLucy
yeah...but what if the mistake he did got rubbed into ur face and made
u feel worse for years?
so it was hard to forgive him ever?

11:05amAnna
Did he rub it?

11:07amLucy
yeah, without realizing it for a bunch of moths he continued to talk
about it until i told him to stop, but the damage was done

11:08amAnna
Ah, so it wasn't like he was thinking "I'm gonna hurt Lucy's feelings
by talking about this thing." He probably didn't even realize it

11:08amLucy
but then he said sorry about it everyday till now... so i can feel his how sorry he is
so i shuld 4give him despite all the bullshit that followed after it...
and other ppl who got involved

11:10amAnna
Yes, explain to him how and why it hurt you, and forgive him.
If he really cares about you, then I don't think he'll make the
same mistake again as long as you are clear.

11:10amLucy
yeah...
thanks anna

11:10amAnna
Of course.

11:11amLucy
i have such terrible anger issues, i have never been taught
to forgive that well

11:12amAnna
Well, I'm kinda the opposite fo the spectrum. I've never been
able to get mad at someone when they deserve it. But I'm glad to help.
I may be gone, but I'm still always there for you!

11:13amLucy
thank u anna, it means so much, you have no idea

11:14amAnna
Your Welcome. And same here you know. Just going back
this weekend really reminded me that you guys always got my back
if I ever had trouble here.

11:15amLucy
haha that was fun